Activity
-
jason kleinberg wrote a new post 8 years, 2 months ago
Memorization is a dry-sounding word that conjures up memories of that seventh grade world history class that you always fell asleep in. I fell asleep in history classes until 11th grade when I had a teacher named […]
I just did a 4 day music camp where it was expected to play by ear and the instructor was very reluctant to hand out the sheet music. I practically had to beg her for it before getting an ulcer. I am 60 years old and have never played by ear. I can do one quarter then get overwhelmed when we move on. If I get the next quarter, I’ve forgotten the first. I feel like it’s a lost cause ☹️ Should I continue to stress over it? Keep trying? Or just enjoy playing with my music?
Hi Kathy, thanks for sharing this. Sounds like a great challenge you had at camp with learning by ear. It was nice they ended up supporting you with sheet music. Makes sense to keep trying to learn by ear, at your own pace, and respect that it’s good to try it (to any degree) in a higher pressure environment like you did, and that the pace was too quick for you to learn fully by ear at that time. Keep working on it though, as slow as the process may be, it’s so beneficial to develop that skill.
I have also relied on sheet music for alot of my playing years and find it quite difficult to go the route of learning by ear when I know I could learn it much faster by seeing the music. (Similar to going for the processed snack food that is already made when I could otherwise go into the garden or fridge and take some time to make something from scratch.) I continue to remind myself that the skill of learning by ear is what I need to develop and it is it’s own path, much different than the one I am more comfortable with/impulsively drawn to. 🙂